Last week I interviewed for a clinical pastoral education position at St. Luke’s Hospital. One of the questions that I try to ask any interview team is this – What advice would you have for me (as a person in his second year of professional ministry)? I received the following responses from the interview team (summarized):
- Have you thought about a spiritual director?
- A CPE residency would have been invaluable before returning to the local church.
- Live a well balanced full life outside of ministry.
Each one of the interview team did not give direct advice to me, but instead reflected on their own experience of life.
In similar situations, do you most naturally give suggestions for other people, tell them what to do or reflect on your own life? Something else entirely?